Wednesday, October 13, 2010

WMW: Me, Overwhelmed?

I can't believe I went a whole week without blogging. I've missed it, I have to say, but this prompt is right on time because, honestly, work has been a little overwhelming lately. Like anything else, my job ebbs and flows and sometimes I have 50 things I'm working on at once, and sometimes I resort to cleaning out old files in my office or in our storage room because I can't find anything else to work on.

Now is one of the more overwhelming times, so when I saw the prompt for Working Mom Wednesday today, I thought "wow, life is coming full circle"! Because honestly, this is what I do when I need to take a break.

I am a planner and a delegator, so it's not that I have anything pressing that is just stressing me to my core, I don't have that kind of job. I have the kind where I am happily plodding along in my planned tasks for that day when BAM! a problem falls from the sky right onto my desk and the rest of my day is spent cleaning up the mess. That's part of the reason I love it, for the change and flexibility and excitement of it all. But until recently, I've never been a person who can sit in an office and look at reports and do paperwork and make cold calls all day, so even on the best of days I need a break to liven life up a bit and get out of my slump.

And that's where you ladies come in! Blogging to me is a stress reliever. It's my cigarette break, coffee break, get up and stretch and stroll around the office chatting with my co-workers break. Other people may go get a snack or talk about Dancing With the Stars when they need to "take 5". I come and check on my fellow mom-bloggers, enter giveaways, share a little piece of what happened in my life recently. I think the other reason I turn here is because I am selfish. I'm just going to be honest: I am not a friend you want in real life. I don't send letters, I don't like to talk on the phone, and I am way too busy to make a lot of time even for the people I care about most. I communicate by email and Facebook more than anything, and I have a very good friend who can probably tell you about the time she asked how I was doing and I actually responded with a link to a blog post. Now, that's sad.

But what's not sad is the last 10 minutes I've spent typing this, and the excitement I feel by knowing at my next breather I will be checking out all my fellow WMW poster's thoughts! I am returning to what I was working on feeling refreshed and ready to work again instead of burnt-out and ready to go home. And for that, ladies, I thank you for allowing me to share!

7 comments:

  1. I've missed you this week! Great post. My old job was filled with a lot of chaos and disorder and I felt the same way you did, I thrived on it. I agree about blogging be a great outlet/stress reliever. It is for me too, most of the time...at least! Have a great week!

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  2. I completely agree that blogging is the wm's cigarette break! Thanks for sharing your post.

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  3. I completely get this. And I'm thinking we could be friend IRL because I'm the same way! Or maybe that would be a bad thing... lol

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  4. I have to agree that blogging is a great stress relief! It's like working with a bunch of awesome women who meet at the water cooler once a week! Thanks for sharing!!

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  5. Thanks for sharing! I totally agree that blogging is a stress relief. I JUST got home from work -- and I couldn't wait to get online!

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  6. AWWW!! I (we) love you too!!! i love checking up on my WMW friends. and i wish i could visit more often. work has been (ugh) CRAZY lately. but wednesdays, I KNOW i can come see you guys. my fave day of the week.

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  7. I agree, blogging has been a great stress relief, thanks to WMW it makes me want to post.

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